By Jodie Nevid
I’m half way through the book Flourish by Martin
Seligman and if you have an interest in positive psychology, well-being
and happiness then you should grab a copy. It’s filled with research and
case studies on the benefits of positive psychology as well as plenty
of practical step-by-step actions and activities you can complete to
increase well-being. It’s like having a paperback therapist on the
bedside table!
On page 75 Seligman talks about his calling to
positive psychology and shares the differentiators used in sociology to
distinguish between a job, a career and a calling.
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A job is for the money – if the money stopped so would you
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A career is about promotion and moving up the ranks – when you reach the top you leave or “become a time-serving husk.”
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A calling is like a mission – you’d do it anyway regardless of the cash or corporate climb. It’s like an intrinsic pull toward a greater purpose.
The difference between the three is interesting to consider, because what we believe we have impacts how we show up each day!
I have had roles as an employee and as a business
owner when I have fluctuated between all three in the very same role.
When I was a potter and I sat at my wheel making drums – I felt so
connected to a purpose I would often look around my studio and think
"wow I cant believe this is what I get paid to do" – my work felt like a
calling. There were also days tough times when the drum business
struggled for cash and I felt like all I had was a really demanding job
with long hours and shocking pay! My belief about my role, the degree to
which I was using my natural strengths and my alignment with the big
picture, or vision and mission is really what made the difference.
If we believe what we're doing has a greater purpose
and we access our natural strengths to achievie that purpose we can
experience engagement like we truly are pursuing a calling. On the flip
side the “just a job” mindset can leave us feeling like the only thing
calling is 5.00pm Friday.
If I find myself in a “It’s just a job” mindset I know
I need to change, I can’t stay motivated in that frame of mind. When
you find a way to do what you love energy and happiness will find you.
Here’s 3 tips to get you out of the “its just a job” head space:
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Establish a personal vision and mission and connect it to the organisations
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Get clear on your values and strengths and apply where ever possible
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Think of your job as training you get paid for. There is bound to be some growth opportunities and skills you can acquire – take the lead on your own personal growth.
The pursuit of a calling might not be for everyone,
however changing the way we think has a dramatic impact on how we show
up. If you can’t flip your thinking and want to get past the “it’s just a
job” mindset then perhaps your calling is somewhere else!
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